How to plan your micro wedding or elopement!
- Katie Hatcher
- Jun 30
- 3 min read

Tips for Planning Your Micro Wedding or Elopement
Hey there, lovebirds! So, you're tired of the fuss, the fussbuckets, and the never-ending guest lists? Ready to ditch the traditional wedding shenanigans and do your own thing? Let’s dive into the fabulous world of micro weddings and elopements, where you can celebrate your love without breaking the bank or your sanity!
1. Set the Stage for Your Dream Vibe
First things first: what's the overall vibe you want? Are you thinking chic and modern, or rustic and romantic? This is your chance to get sassy with your venue choice! Whether it’s a breathtaking mountaintop or a cozy little café where you first met, choose a spot that reflects your unique love story. And don’t forget to consider the season—it plays a crucial role in your décor and attire decisions too!
2. Guest List? More Like Guest *Zist*
Let’s be real: the fewer, the merrier! For a micro wedding or elopement, keep your guest list tight. We’re talking close family, best friends, and that one cousin who knows how to have a good time. Not only will it save you money, but it’ll also create a more intimate atmosphere. Plus, less drama! Who doesn’t want that?
3. Personalize Like Nobody’s Watching
You want your wedding to scream *you*, right? So, embellish it with personal touches! Write your vows from the heart, choose readings that resonate, and incorporate meaningful symbols into your ceremony. A little DIY flair goes a long way—think handcrafted décor, personalized favors, or fun photo ops that highlight what makes you, *YOU*.
4. Get Creative with Your Budget
Sure, wedding costs can spiral, but a micro wedding or elopement means you can be more flexible. Consider splurging on one key thing that truly excites you (like a killer photographer or a unique cake) and stick to budget-friendly options for everything else. Don’t be afraid to shop around, negotiate, or even go a bit unconventional—think backyard barbecues or themed potluck receptions!
5. Prioritize Your Must-Haves
What’s the most important aspect of your day? Maybe you want stunning photos to immortalize the moment, or perhaps you crave a lavish feast, or simply want to strut in a jaw-dropping gown or suit. Make a list of your non-negotiables and stick to it. Everything else is a bonus!
6. Keep it Stress-Free with a Day-of Coordinator
Even if you’re eloping or throwing a petite celebration, a day-of coordinator can save you from last-minute meltdowns. Trust me, you’ll want someone orchestrating the day while you focus on making googly eyes at your partner. You'll both be grateful when the big moment arrives, and you can just enjoy the ride!
7. Make a Rain Plan
Mother Nature has her moods, and sometimes she decides to shower down on your parade. No one wants to deal with soggy shoes or frizzy hair (yikes!). Always have a backup plan for outdoor ceremonies—an alternate indoor location or just the cutest little umbrellas that will even have the rain setting the mood for romance.
8. Capture Those Candid Moments
With fewer people around, you’ll have the freedom to let loose and enjoy each other! Hire a talented photographer who understands your vision and can capture the essence of the day. Trust us—the candid shots will be the ones that make you swoon in years to come!
9. Embrace the Flexibility
One of the best parts of a micro wedding or elopement? You can be spontaneous! Want to dance under the stars after dinner? Go for it! Feel the urge to break out into song? Do it! This day is about celebrating your love, so let your personalities shine.
10. Celebrate WITH Style
With fewer guests, consider adding a surprise element, like a firework display or a personalized playlist for your own dance party. Or why not end the night with a sweet treat bar or a fun activity related to your interests? Keep the energy high and the vibe fab!
So there you have it, soon-to-be newlyweds! Planning a micro wedding or an elopement can be a wild, carefree ride. Embrace the journey, get creative, and most importantly, let your love shine through every detail. Happy planning!