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5 Wedding songs you shouldn't play at your wedding

  • Writer: Katie Hatcher
    Katie Hatcher
  • Jun 8
  • 2 min read
People in formal attire dance joyfully in a circle at a wedding reception.

Top 5 Wedding Songs You Shouldn’t Play at Your Wedding


So you’re planning your wedding, the big day where love is in the air and everyone is ready to celebrate your union. You’ve picked the flowers, the venue, and even the cake. But wait—have you thought about the music? While you might be tempted to throw on some classics, there are definitely a few songs that should be promptly kicked to the curb. Here are the top five wedding songs you absolutely shouldn’t play if you want your big day to be remembered for the right reasons—or at least not be the topic of cringeworthy conversations for years to come!


1. "I Will Survive" by Gloria Gaynor


Let’s get one thing straight: this song is a banger. But it’s also a breakup anthem that screams independence after a tough relationship. And unless you want to remind your guests that love sometimes doesn’t last, best to leave this one off the playlist. The last thing you want is Aunt Linda reaching for a few extra cocktails because she’s having flashbacks to her last relationship.


2. "Bye Bye Bye" by *NSYNC


There’s a time to dance, and there’s a time to throw shade. This song falls squarely into the latter category. What’s worse than reminding everyone of their exes while they’re supposed to be celebrating your everlasting love? Just don’t. Even Justin Timberlake would advise you to pick something a little more romantic.


3. "Single Ladies (Put a Ring on It)" by Beyoncé


Sure, we all love this powerhouse anthem, and it can definitely get the crowd moving. But remember, you’re at your wedding, and your buddy Dave is probably still single and on the lookout for a future Mrs. This song is a jab in the ribs to all the single folks milling around the dance floor who may be feeling just a tad envious of your happily ever after. Let’s keep the mood celebratory, not spiteful!


4. "Another One Bites the Dust" by Queen


Queen might be legendary, but this song may not be your best bet for a celebration of love. It’s all “one bites the dust” while you’re trying to say “I do.” Imagine the cringes and awkward glances. The irony will not be lost on your guests, and you really don’t want your wedding to turn into a farewell party for love.


5. "You Don’t Bring Me Flowers" by Neil Diamond and Barbra Streisand


While this duet with emotional weight is hard to beat, the message is loud and clear: it’s about relationships falling apart. Seriously, is this a wedding or a breakup support group? No one wants to “celebrate” their special day under the shadow of impending doom. Instead, keep the vibes light and peppy!


Conclusion


Your wedding should be a celebration of love, happiness, and joy—not an inadvertent trip down memory lane for your guests’ worst romantic moments. So when building that musical guest list, skip these tracks and focus on songs that embody the magic of love (hello, “At Last”?). Your future spouse and your guests will thank you for it! Now go forth and plan the wedding that everyone will talk about for years to come—hopefully, for all the right reasons!




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